I can’t believe my first-ever mod is finally out! I wrote it out in July 2021 hoping the day it could be a mod and the fact it is out now feels so surreal. The five love language mod in The Sims 4! Yes, our sims can now have a love language as a trait. You can buy the trait from the rewards store and it costs 12 points. Once your sim has the trait, you can see it in the simology panel and then your sims will have wants surrounding their trait. I used ALL the packs to create this mod.
What are the wants I will see in the game?
Most of the instructions are already in the game on how to complete the wants
1. Words of affirmation
The charisma skill is important for words of affirmation
- Compliment outfit *skill 2 charisma*
- Compliment appearance
- Brighten day *skill 2 charisma*
- Flatter *skill 3 charisma*
- Ask about day
- Express admiration
- Whisper (any whisper social)
- Profess undying love
- Pickup line *for couples with high relationship, just have your couple flirt*
- Sweet talk *skill 6 charsima*
- Flirt
- Declare love publicly
- Get to know
- Discuss interest
- Deep conversation
- Tell story (any story social)
- Tell dirty joke *skill 4 comedy and also flirty*
- Ask a risqué question
- Write love email *skill 4 writing/ flirty mood*
- Flirty text *could be regular text too*
- Heartfelt compliment *happy emotion*
- Say affirmations
- Write affirmations
2. Quality Time
- Ask about day
- Watch movie alone or with someone
- Play Console / PC alone or with someone *skill 4 video gaming*
- Call someone
- Chat on computer
- Cook meal alone or with someone (any meals from all packs)
- Picnic *spring/summer season*
- Prepare drinks (any drinks from all packs)
- Travel
- Join in cooking
- Workout *skill 6 fitness*
- Dance together *skill 3 dance*
- Pillow fight
- Teach to knit *skill 10 knitting*
- Play with sparkler *must be summer/fireworks must be on the property for the want to appear*
- Video call
- Watch TV show
- Take a bath *any bath*
- Play board games *all table games included*
3. Gifts
- Give gift *friendly, mean, funny or romantic*
- Give simoleons
- Treat yourself or any animal
- Receive gift *open presents from seasons*
- Buy something *retail, phone, computer purchase…etc.*
- Offer rose *gift rose or flower arrangement in inventory/ buy from the flower stall*
- Donate to charity *skill 3 charisma*
- Give jewelry gift *gemology table*
- Give a collectible as a gift *dig to find something or buy simmi capsule
4. Acts of service
- Call to meal
- Be called to a meal
- Make drinks for *use bar*
- Prepare drinks (any drink from any pack)
- Order drinks together / solo
- Cheers *toast from seasons/ my wedding stories*
- Order food from stall
- Clean up
- Repair
- Give or receive massage *romantic base game social or spa day*
- Cook (any meal)
- Donate to charity *skill 3 charisma*
- Order delivery
- Serve tea/ be served tea *object from my wedding stories*
- Hire a service (any service)
- Volunteer *parenthood pack*
5. Physical touch
These wants need sims to have a first kiss to appear. For sims created in CAS as married or premades, they have to woohoo first for the want to appear.
- Kiss
- Kiss lover’s cheek / family kiss *all sims are included in this interaction*
- Hug / Embrace *all sims are included in this interaction*
- Caress cheek
- Snuggle your lover
- Give / receive Massage
- Look deeply into eyes
- Feed a bite
- Slow dance / sweetheart dance *My wedding stories/ High school years*
- Cozy up by the fire
- Woohoo (any location)
- Cuddle while watching movie
- Make out
- Tickle
Credits 💕
- Thank you, Tee (danitysimmer) for helping me and teaching me all about modding. You are so patient with me and so understanding.. I’ll never forget your kindness. I pray you receive so many blessings in life
- Jordy, thank you for motivating me to go back and cheering me on when I sent updates
- My family and friends who cheered me on when I sent updates
- Zerbu’s mod constructor v5 / Lot51 tuning builder
- Sims 4 studio / Scumbumbo’s xml injector
- Cinnasims for the pose I used/pose player mod
- “The Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman [Book]
- Twistedmexi better exceptions
- My amazing friends who tested this mod out thank you so much!